We have always expecting something out of our bfs. Well, today we shall look from their views, what they expect from their gfs (us).

- A good listener (Not)
When he's talking about technology/ mobiles/ cars/ house/ soccer/ F1/ watches which of cox, they will never mention LV/ Prada/ Miu Miu/ Kate Spade etc.. they hope we will share the same taste/ view as them and give them the very "enthusiastic" look which really sometimes, it's difficult to bring that out of us. Not only the look you need to "provide", you will ALSO need to share your views! This make the whole conversation a tougher one.

- Spend precious time with them
What I mean "precious" time? It means when they are watching their programmes, they want us to join in and watch with them like how they accompany us (by sleeping on your lap) through our drama-mama series when we tear all the way.

- Stop Grumbling (But men do!)
They dislike their women to grumble like how their mama do but surveys have shown that men actually choose their partners who are closest to their heart (comfort zone) and most of the time, it's like their mama. Sad to say, they never realise it. So, what they exactly want from us? I can say, most men grumble like hell, more than I do!

- Give opinions (which will never be accepted)
Having problems/ dilemmas about what to have for lunch/ dinner? Girls will have the most opinions/ suggestions. Men would actually ask "What you wanna have for dinner?"
Gal: "Sushi!"
Man: "Hmm, why not we have the hokkien mee at East Coast hawker centre?"
Gal: "-_-" (Thot: So why do you ask in the 1st place?")
It can be quite frustrating sometimes becox he will "indirectly" force you to suggest something and in the end eliminate it.

- Never waste food
We might sometimes over ordered food so we thought, "Waste is better than to put on the extra weight" But they would say," Hey dont waste food and it's okay to eat a little bit more since you are not fat" .. With the magical sentence out from your love's mouth, okay, I will finish it. By then, weight gained and he would say, "Gal, it's time to go for walk to keep fit."

- Movies
Girlie shows, please go watch with your BFFs. But when comes to action/ horror movies which he likes most, he expect YOU to watch with them! What the *#$&&$*#!!!!! He might try his best to go into the cinema with you to watch your "The Breakup" and end up, it's either he fell asleep with the full of dialogs movie or came out grumbling about how boring is that show. That's saddening.

- Sensitive kid
Never ever exchange a gift he bought for you, you will hurt him badly and you will end up with no gifts in the future! Let's say, he bought u a LV bag which the design is not the one you adore. Do not suggest to go back to the boutique and exchange to the design you like! Just accept it feeling appreciated, at least he bother to find you a gift! Isn't it true? And anyway, never ever do that to others even though they are not your bfs. It's rude.

- Please them
They are never hard to please. If they like eating bread, forever they like eating bread. Even if you can't cook, make them bread with peanut butter, it's their all time favourite =) OR even, a carton of Hoegarden, they will love you more. (example) It's the little things you do that he likes it so much.

- Act stupid (though we are smarter)* sometimes
No men will like their women to be smarter than them!

So, conclusion is, are you a good girlfriend?

P.S. Cliffy is none of the above. Entry blogged based on majority men in relationships.

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